Here is my opinion-
First date: whoever initiates the date should pay
After that it doesn't matter, just take turns or split the bill.
Special occasions: you should treat them.
Randomly: offer to pay, even when its not your turn. Just out of curtesy and kindness
Who do you think should fit the bill?
Most Helpful Guy
Everyone should pay for their own shit.2
Most Helpful Girl
I think both should pay for their own share of the meal on a FIRST date. Then neither feels obligated to meet up again if it doesn't go well. I'd feel guilty if a guy asked me on a date, payed for it, and I didn't want to see him again. I'd feel like I'd taken advantage of his kindness. So I'd insist I pay for myself
If we met up again and he payed , then I'd insist that I pay the next time
If a guy or women is going for dates with people from a dating site and s/he is always the one intiating , then it would be unfair that s/he has to for every time on ever date with different people.( Some people go on many dates with many people before they decide they want to see someone a second time) It would cost them her a fortune If they had to pay for two people all of the time. That's unfair1