Personality is a huge part of attractiveness, don't get me wrong. But, sometimes I'll see a couple and wonder how a guy could be physically attracted to the girl he's with or vice versa. And I can't really imagine settling for a girl that I'm not very attracted to, both physically and her personality.
Is that bad? And do other people settle? Or are they actually attracted? Are you physically attracted to your bf/gf?
Most Helpful Girl
This is the thing; attraction changes once you get together. My boyfriend and I were attracted to each other, but at the time I wasn't in the best shape (not overweight but a little heavier for a petite girl), but he cared about me and still loved me, obviously still felt attracted to me. As we got together I've gotten a lot more fit than I was when we first started dating and his attraction for me grew - ironically just as he put on a tiny bit of pudge (he had lost his job at the time). But even though he did, I still felt (and still do feel) extremely attracted to him.
So yes, looks are 100% important but they matter less when you actually give a shit about the person.1
Most Helpful Guy
I mean I believe that if any relationship I am in is to be succesful, then I must find the girl I'm dating to be physically attractive and the girl must find me physically attractive. I mean it's hard to say "how much" attractive, but above average certainly. But I don't think that you need to think your partner is the most attractive person in the world physically, for a relationship to work.1