Now I'm meeting a potential sugar daddy on Saturday. He is super handsome, athletic, pretty young and has a really cute accent. We've been texting for 10 days every single day. He wants to be exclusive with me and seems to be really caring, tells me to bring warm clothes, that we will go shopping, and do whatever I like. He booked hotel and flights. He is classy and polite, not even a bit of a pervert. I love talking to him. We joke a lot. He says I'm his angel. And I'm thinking I'm going to fall in love with him. We haven't discussed allowance and there's no way I'll ask. I'm thinking just getting away with someone I'm actually attracted to and who cares about me will be really nice for a change. Money is not important this time. I see him almost as a boyfriend. I think I'll want this to last. Now I don't know will he want to sleep with me during this trip. I feel that we shouldn't have sex now. I'd just want to kiss and cuddle. I want it to start like a normal relationship. What do you think?
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My advice is to sleep with him if you want but do not fall in love. Sugar relationship is a lot like forbidden relationship. There are boundaries you do not want to cross. The one ending up getting hurt will be you.
There are many reasons sugar daddies get sugar babies. However, the root is similar: they do not want a normal relationship or do not have time for one. Asking for a normal relationship is asking for trouble. If you keep advancing then he might string you along and leave you once he got busy. If he is decent then he would sever the relationship before you get too deep.
Treat the relationship like a dream. Enjoy the moment but do not forget that it is simply a dream.
Even the sugar daddies are faking it. He might have a 60k/year job but wanted to enjoy being treated like a king and viewed as a handsome prince in the eyes of young women.2