I've been on a few dates with guys and I've noticed that one has to keep the options open as you never know... especially in the first 2-3 months...
to be honest, I find it quiet annoying and exhausting as you can't really focus on one person only...
it's really stupid...
who thinks the same?
If you like someone, why not continue getting to know that person?
Most Helpful Guy
Agreed, but the reason it's not as straightforward as "if you like someone, why not continue getting to know them" is simple: you just don't know that it will go anywhere--especially early on. So you're best off cultivating other options as well. This is especially true for guys, because we tend to do the asking. That means, we REALY don't know how you feel about us until you demonstrate you're attracted to us and see us as potential sexual partners. Girls know that we see them that way immediately, otherwise we'd never have asked them out. But we can't know until a fair bit of time and energy has been invested.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't do that. I'm also very introverted and highly picky. So if I happen to stumble upon a lad I'm actually into, it's so rare that I wouldn't be dating anyone else. And I know I won't be going on pointless dates with guys and lead them on just "because."2