I know I'm going to get some heat for this.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. We are currently in a long distance relationship, while I attend college.
I started having a crush on this guy that I had for class. I didn't realize it until one night we hung out and I got drunk and we kissed.. I felt horrible after that day and I told myself I never wanted to do that again.
After awhile, my interest in my classmate came back.. Which is weird because we hardly ever talk outside of class and he's so hard to read. It's been a couple of months and I feel the same way.
When I hang out with my boyfriend I tend to get annoyed very easily and I snap. I really don't know why.
I genuinely do care about his well being but I'm starting to feel numb about our relationship.
he's done nothing wrong which makes me question myself as to why I'm losing interest and putting my attention towards some guy who doesn't really care?
Most Helpful Guy
It's because this guy in your class is more attractive to you than your boyfriend.
Too bad, your relationship has run its course because if you really did care, your lips wouldn't have been anyway near his let alone touching them even under influence. At the back of your mind, it was what you wanted (whether you actively pursued it or not) and the fact those tingles linger when you know the guy isn't interest expresses this further.
Break up with your boyfriend because he deserves better than you.0
Most Helpful Girl
The problem isn't necessarily your crush , its the fact you pursued it even more and cheated on your boyfriend. Its not completely weird you've lost interest , it's been 2 years and you're in a long distance relationship , so losing interest can very well happen. I would suggest ending the relationship or at least talking to your boyfriend about you if you dont see the relationship with your boyfriend going anywhere - and its not fair to him at all to not know whats going on and what happened , don't string him along. If you do decide to stay with your boyfriend, completely cut ties with this classmate outside of class. No texting or social media interacting and no hanging out. You've already kissed him , if you want to save your relationship with your boyfriend , steer clear of this guy and avoid the temptations. good luck2