Is there a way to make these guys want something more serious? or at least be patient before having sex? Can't someone be sexy charismatic and a nice guy?
Most Helpful Guy
From what you've written, it seems like you're only interested in guys who are handsome and what you consider to be sexy. The amazing thing about attraction and life in general is that you get what you project... So if you seem like you're only interested in looks, guys are going to assume that you don't care about their character and will treat you accordingly.
If you want a relationship, get to really know them as a person. Show that you're interested in them as people, not what they look like.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No, of course not. I've got so many handsome guy friends and none of them are into casual dating. Many are actually pretty shy around girls. I tried to flirt with one of those guys and he was telling me about Pokemon Go :'D I was like how about we go night swimming and he was like I think it's too cold now and I was feeling like dude, why don't you get it :/ We were high so I was really horny, but he didn't try anything with me. When they dropped me off at home, he got out of the car and I thought he wanted to say something to me or kiss me, but he just wanted to change the seat -_- I was still standing there and looked him in the eyes and it seemed to me that he finally figured it out at that moment. That night he sent me some hearts lol and told me to visit him as he was travelling to another city for university. Another friend told me that this guy I liked was single for a long time and was really struggling to get a girlfriend. The fact that you see him as perfect doesn't mean that he sees himself like that too. It certainly doesn't mean he is a player. Whether he is a player or not you will see from his behaviour.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE