If they were trustworthy and hadn't ever done anything sexual with them. Would it make you jealous? How would you approach this issue?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, sounds to me you have some deep rooted issues. I've been happily married to my bestie for 17 years, bit I also have another "bestie" that I share equal discussions with. Never bothered my wife! She has had guy friends that are pretty much the same way when we first got married. I never thought anything of it! Figure out why YOU have trust issues and then talk to him about it! Open and active communication seems to solve every relationship problem on this site...0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd trust them. My best friend is a guy, but I just see him as a friend. No romantic interest. Maybe once when we were younger, but I'm past that now. We've had too complicated a past and he and I just aren't compatible. I want nothing but friendship from him. I would hope my boyfriend wouldn't think me untrustworthy just because a guy is my bff.
I had another best guy friend (who I am no longer friends with) who was like a brother to me. Always had been. My parents even allowed me to sleep over his house all the time because they knew that there would never be anything between us. He would even refer to me as his sister to many people. My boyfriend at the time understood that and trusted me completely.
I had a boyfriend who had a best girlfriend and I trusted him that they were just friends. We broke up due to the fact that he didn't understand that cuddling with ANY of his best girl friends wasn't okay, but if it weren't for the fact that he wouldn't compromise on the cuddling thing, then him having a best girl friend wouldn't have bothered me.0