So this has actually happened to me a few times and I'm sure it's happened to other fellas... But WHY ON 🌏 do girls reject guys by giving the excuse "I'm busy"? do they not realize that when they say this that the guy will keep asking them out till they are no longer "busy"? Lol ladies please fill me in why you can't just say "no, I'm not interested"
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I typically straight up tell a guy I'm not interested if I'm not. I've had guys ask me to elaborate on why I wasn't interested, though. Sometimes scheduling will factor into it, especially the last few months. I intend on moving out of state in the next several months for school so I've even turned down guys I'm interested in. And I've found that guys really do still think they have a chance, even the ones I straight up told I'm not attracted to them. I think there is an issue of assumption on both sides no matter what reason is presented, some girls may assume she's doing a guy a favor by giving an indefinite answer, and some guys read into an answer until they can pretend it means something that they want to hear.0