I've been dating this girl for 3 years now and I love her with all my heart. I'd do anything (well within the law) for her if she ever asked me to. We've been through thick and thin and thin and thinner and we've always managed to come out on top together.
But, there's one thing about her that bothers the living hell out of me.
She has (what I perceive to be) a very bad habit of ignoring me sometimes when I ask her questions. For example, if she were to be on her phone for an extended period of time (which she normally is) chatting with someone or just scrolling through a timeline on Facebook or something, and I asked her "Hey babe, what'cha doing?" loud and as clear as day, she would ignore my question and go on as if no one said anything.
She's not hard of hearing and I am close enough to her to where my voice isn't too distant. Also, we can rile out that maybe she's just distracted easily, only because I'll follow up my question by asking her again to get the response of "I heard you the first time."
This makes me upset and I've told her about this many times but, it doesn't seem like she cares too much.
So again, I ask, what is the proper way to handle being physically ignored?
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You've told her how it makes you feel. If she does not change her behavior then you are left with only one option. You dump her.
However, I can tell from how you write about her that you have her up on some kind of pedestal, and are unlikely to dump her. The bottom line is this. She would not dare do this to a guy that had the backbone to dump her ass, and that she respected.
There was once a voluptuous hot blond that was rude to me. I called her out on it, and clearly informed her that it would not be occurring again. A short time later, she was rude to me again. I dumped her. THE END.
She realized what she was missing and I received the usual emails apologizing, crying and a few years later, she tried to contact me through different means (not sure how she did that).
I do not tolerate rudeness... and goodbye is goodbye.
You, young man need to reestablish where your balls are and get some backbone. NO ONE has the right to disrespect you and still have the pleasure of your company regardless of gender.0