So I was talking with this girl for about a week or two on tinder and we decided to meet. A few days ago we planned for her to come over today around 1 and we would spend the day together. So she came into town last night with her friends and ate out and spent the night. And the next day (today) she asked what time she could come over and I said 1 and she said great =) then at 1:30 she texts me saying she was sleeping and now she feels sick and can't make it. Is she just not wanting to come over or do you think she is serious? Why would you flake on a first date?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe she lost interest0
Most Helpful Guy
she is obviously not serious. something happened to change her mind and its all about you. its probably not your fault though because you made your intentions clear and she liked you too since she wanted to meet up. you should leave her alone. if she just said she is sick and bs like that, then she doesn't want to meet up anymore. if she were to say she is sick, but asked for another day, or you dont do anything to talk with het and she just always finds a way to talk to you, these 2 situations are the only ones in which she is serious. other than that, leave her alone.0