I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and I've just been diagnosed with a brain tumor. It's wrapped around my spinal cord so... they refuse to operate. Things are gonna get bad I've seen what cancer can do to people and those who love them. Do I tell him and how? Or should I leave him and spare him the pain...
Most Helpful Guy
I definitely would tell him. One of my cousins wife left him for no reason at. Well come to find put she was sick and knew she was dying. Told no one and passed away shortly after the divorce. Thats sad to me because she had no one for her at the end and I know he was really heartbroken.3
Most Helpful Girl
Not letting him know is more traumatic than telling him straight up.5