So I met this girl and everything was going good we were like in the process of dating because we wouldn't talk to anyone else and we both like each other a lot we would kiss and hold hands like if we were dating everything was good and then suddenly it all changed so I asked her that we needed to talk seriously and she just told me that she didn't want to be in a relationship that she needed time to herself but that she still wanted to be friends and have nothing changed so I asked her what she meant by have nothing changed and she said she didn't know like she didn't know if she wanted to be like how we were of talking like recently or like how we were like holding hands and kissing and all of that stuff so I just kept talking to her and then I just needed to know what was gonna happen between us cause she didn't tell me anything so then I texted her this "Hey I'm sorry to bug u but I have to get something off my chest I don't normally do this I really never done this but ur an exception I just want to let u know that the short time we spent I enjoyed every minute of it and if I would have know then what I know now that we wouldn't talk anymore I would have made the days with u longer I know the timing is not right for us I know ur not looking for anything serious which sucks but I respect that I hope we don't lose touch with each other I hope that maybe later on we can work things out so that we can both be happy I know this seems like a lot for knowing someone so shortly but I never felt this way for anyone before" and all she replied was aww how cute and of course we won't lose contact so I then asked her that I meant what I said and that I'm different than other people and she just told me that it means a lot that I'm different so yea like should I just give her time or should I just ask her what's gonna happen? I really like this girl and I don't want to lose her like what should I do or say to not lose contact with her or go to how we were?
I need help on what's gonna happen with this girl that I really like I don't want to lose her but I don't know what to do?
What Girls Said 1
The "awww that's cute" is a bad sign. It's like girl talk for "wow, yeah I don't feel the same way".
She said she's not ready for a relationship from the start, yup really bad sign.
I guess you can ask her more directly next time, but I don't think it'd help much tbh. You're just going to have to accept the fact that she may never come around. Or, may never come around for YOU. This may be one of those types of "I'm not looking for a relationship" type of rejections where she then gets into one in a few weeks with another guy.
It's up to you to decide if you want to be at her arm's reach and wait, that's IF she decides to actually attempt to be with you.0
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What Guys Said 1
coming from a guy who felt much pain with a girl I was was so special and didn't want to loose. the best thing I can advice you to do is to have to let her go man. some things bro you can't take or go back to. you keep her as a friend and it will destroy you from the inside.0
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