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Most Helpful Guy
Yes... You are absolutley correct... Any man who pressures you for sex is only interested in your body... Let me tell you something... As a 37 year old guy who is lonely, and is waiting for the right one... Not going with any woman who shows him interest, waiting for the one is one of the loneliest paths you can take!
Be WISE, and do not believe a word a man tells you! Test him! Deny him sex at all costs, and at all times, only letting him see you on your honeymoon. Remember! Your virginity is something you can ONLY EVER GIVE ONCE. And only to ONE GUY. You cannot give it to Joe, and then give it also to Mike... So HOLD ONTO IT. MANY women spend entire lifetimes, weeping in their hearts that they gave it to some selfish man who took it AND LEFT.
I Guarantee the guy that was pressuring you would have left.
Save it for the man who will stay with you for life. He will be the man that gets to know you intimately without having sex, who spends months, maybe even years growing closer to you in celibacy... Do not give anyone sex, not even 30 seconds before the honeymoon, it has to be done right!
It is a lonely road but worth it in the end.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You told him you didn't want to, and he kept pressuring you. That's not okay. You did the right thing.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE