My question is, is he really that serious? Is it possible for someone to want to marry someone like that? Why would he keep texting/wanting to spend time with me if he truly doesn't take me seriously?
Most Helpful Guy
He doesn't understand what he actually means with what he wants. I doubt he wants a "dumb" girl, he probably wants a drunken party girl that he's smarter than and can more/less keep in control under him.
He doesn't want someone who thinks for themselves and has opinions. You aren't "too good" for him, he probably doesn't want a girlfriend that'll realize when he tries to walk all over them. Maybe he wants a nymphomaniac. And there's no way he's marrying anyone at this stage, he likely wouldn't even want to call anything that happens a relationship.
As for why he would still be texting you, he doesn't mind staying friends. If you're attracted to him, maybe try getting into a friend's with benefits situation, but don't expect anything out of it.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No. No one actually means that. They usually say it whenever they want to reject someone. It's almost guaranteed. No one would actually let someone good get away, since people are selfish and they want to keep the good things for themselves.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE