I was seeing this guy for a month and a half and i felt unappreciated because he wouldn't give me enough attention. When i like someone i give them so much attention from day 1 or like a week or so and he never called and i felt like an object, yea sometimes he text or call but nothing special, no dates to movies, eating I don't know the usual things. I broke it off with him nd i said i will go to someone else and he responded with: dont do anything stupid and i will come by one of these days dont forget me (like if u give him sex i want some too) that kind of attitude... Why was he such a jerk, i treated him nicely gave him a lot of attention but al he cared about were his buddies and sex, he is 21 im 24
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, you just dated a guy who wanted to use you. But you know, this is just part of dating and especially young dating. You're not going to go out and date only keepers -- that's just never going to happen. I'm glad you broke it off because there are people out there who hang around toxic people and even do crazy things like have their babies. Just shrug it off and move on. You'll be fine.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sweetheart, this is such a clear sign that this guy is just a douche and he does not deserve your sweetness at all.
I think you should honestly move on and leave him for good, tell him that you won't waste any of your time with him whatsoever, and just do your own thing, enjoy life, don't give attention to people that don't give you the same attention back, that is unfair, it always takes two.
You should just SKIP him and be happy on your own, until a nice gentleman will give you the right attention you deserve.
Been there, done that, i know the feeling.
<3 Good luck1