Fat girls often say that people shouldn't care about looks and that personality is more important, but why don't they abide by their own advice? As a thin guy of average height I can get attractive girls with hot bodies and they like both my looks and personality. Fat girls on the other hand don't want anything less than a tall bodybuilder.
I can understand when a fat girl with a really attractive face (which is very rare for them) only wants to date tall bodybuilder guys, but why do even ugly fat girls have such a requirement?
I have also noticed that most fat girls have ugly personalities. They are loud and they insult people who are not fat. They don't really care about personality, they just want a hot guy. Of course, not all of them are like this, but the majority of them are.
What's the reason for this?
Most Helpful Girl
I think you are exaggerating and being biased for no reason. It's just something you have noticed according to your personal experience, other people can claim the opposite because their experiences differ from yours. Also, everyone's shallow to some extent. People who claim they are not, are the worst liars of all.1
Most Helpful Guy
If there's any merit to what you're saying, I think that has more to do with being a reject than overweight.
If you see guys who repeatedly strike out with girls regardless of how they look, they share some of the same symptoms. They overvalue their personality, think they care about a girl they're crushing on more than anyone else in the world, and think they'd make the most amazing boyfriend in the world even though they've never had any real experience.
Furthermore, surprisingly it is those types who often have the most specific description of the type of girl/guy they want. Their preferences are so narrow even though they haven't had any partners (which seems to make little sense except that they're living in fantasy land and chasing dream lovers in their imagination).
The reject mentality can then turn to bitterness. It can also lead to negative personality traits like anxiety, shyness, lack of confidence, insecurities, etc., all while thinking the world is so cruel and unfair. That doesn't always yield the most pleasant and sociable person.4