I've been dating a guy for about a month now - he told me that he really likes me, and thinks i'm the coolest and most amazing girl he met, but he was unsure about it being long term and wanted to take it slow. I really like this guy and he knows that - we never started out as friends as we met online.
Now all of a sudden, he breaks it off with me saying it is unfair to leave me hanging around whilst he is unsure for the long term, and that he enjoys my company and wants to stay as friends. I never saw him as friends as we were purely dating from the beginning.
Is there any way of turning it back around? I'm really sad that he came to this solution... I told him I can't be friends with him as it is too cruel to stay around someone who only wants to be friends, when my intention was more than that. Am I right not to be friends with him?
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I feel he is Being 100% an Honest John with you Here, dear, with his own Intentions, so as to Not Lead you on.
He may Want for now, to Take it Slow and See if there is More in Store down a Love Line some Time but not Now it would Seem. He is not this Ready Steady Eddy.
It's up to you and your own Heart, if you can Handle his Request. Nursing and Nurturing is a Good way to Begin any Possible Romance by Chance, for Friendship is the Trick to Take a First Baby step that could Lead to More down a Potential Path.
Think it Over. Life is Gamble anyway, so what would you have to Lose? Maybe just a Lesson in Life.
Good Luck. xx0