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What? . No way!. I don't think so and in fact I am sure of this. As far as women are concerned, I am sure they want men who are very logical but at the same time men who can respect and understand their feelings while they themselves won't be emotional and weak minded.
Hence I think women really want men who are mentally strong, logical and understanding by nature.
I am sure a women won't find an emotional guy attractive! or appealing for that matter.
I personally like an emotional guy. Can't speak for other girls, but I think it's cute. I like to see that guys actually do care and have emotions and aren't afraid to show it. And there is a big difference between being a normal, emotional person and being a mess. It's totally fine to cry and open up, but if its way too often then yea, the guy will seem a little pitiful.
It depends on WHAT GUY chooses WHAT GIRL, if a girl accepts the guy being emotionally expressive or NOT, then it means they just found the right partner.
It's not that we ARE NEVER HAPPY about this, but it all depends on US WOMEN as well how we approach MEN, so :) ye
For me it is fine for my guy to be emotional. I had a boyfriend before who cried when he felt something really hurting about his family. I admired him that he opened up and showed his emotion in front of me. I would love to have someone like him again.
well its okay for a guy to talk out his feelings with hia girl. its absolutely okay to talk about whats bothering him IF he can find a solution and of course if his girlfriend helps him a bit.
thats a healthy conflict to go through.
BUT if the guy dwells on it for a long ass time and complains a lot and does the "poor me" shit, and doesn't use advice from his girl. then that fucken shit annoying. like he's just pushing it to a crybaby level.
Is this a legit question or are you venting frustration? My boyfriend is a very emotional person. He is very cheesey about feelings. When I had to leave (ldr) we both cried. I rubbed his back and kissed him. I don't think there's anything wrong with being emotional. The only time I don't wanna hear it with his venting is about family matters because he just wants to complain and not do anything about it and it stresses me out!
Yes, i wish to have an emotional boyfriend so he can feel me, understand me and do what i like without telling him. My current boyfriend isn't emotional and this is makes me get upset at him because i think that he don't care bout me plus i am a girl and girls are emotional, sensitive so they need an emotional guy who can understand em and show em care and love.
No, as a man you are not required to have emotions, the only women who will tolerate your emotions are your mom, sisters, female friends and the girl you marry after she becomes you wife for a while, any other girl you have a slight interest in will think you're pathetic if you ever show weakness or emotions.
This is true. Emotions = weakness in women's view.
@BubbleBoy69 we're humans and i've showed emoitons that is not something any of us can ignore or avoid however around stranger girls i find hot? no never, and thats why i still get their attention.
Some girls do yeah. But not all. I think it's just finding that balance.
And it's the same vice versa. Guys say they want clingy girls but if they're clingy then it's annoying but if they're not, guys think they're not interested. Both sexes make things hard for the other.
I have a really close guy friend who opens up to me and I don't think less of him. I've seen him cry over his family problems and I'm just there for him. I'm also really close to my brother and he opens up to me. I personally like when a guy opens up to me because it means that they trust you
I don't want a robot I want a guy with emotions and one that can understand what I'm going through.
This is a tricky subject. There has to be that right balance. If a guy is too emotional I would think he's a wimp or possibly a hidden gay guy. Sorry just being honest. To me, if a guy cried at a sad movie, I don't see anything wrong with it, a family member dieing, animal etc. Crying is acceptable. If your crying for any other reason then no... just no... lol good luck :)
I cried while watching Fast and Furious 7 the last part
Does that make me gay? 😨
@the_artist I've never seen the movie. But like I said.. if it's a really sad ending. Then to me it's acceptable for a man to cry
I think that a guy needs to be balanced with his "feminine side." Share how you feel but do not over do it. If you talk to much about how you feel, the girl will either get weirded out or think you are gay and want to be best friends. But, you should be somewhat open about what you think. I, personally, want a guy who will tell me how he feels and what he thinks.
The moral of the story: Don't take dating advice from women. While they're often well-meaning and probably believe their own bullshit, usually what they say they want and what they actually want are two different things.
Sooo true
No. They don't want a rock, but not an emotional guy either.
Don't ever cry in front of a girl unless it's a happy cry (like when your kid is born), or because a relative died.
Emotionally unstable I don't think anyone would want. To me that would cover crying, worrying, jealousy etc. Emotional as in being open and showing you care in a healthy respectful manner I can't see why anyone wouldn't want that.
I like when a guy can be emotional. Society and gender stereotypes tell guys they can't be human and emotional and when guys understand that they can be emotional and shouldn't be judged for it shows a lot of character.
Don't know what sick fucks are saying that but an emotional guy is kick ass all guys want now is sex in my life and if a guy shows emotion it's so amazing I can't even put it into words
It's okay that you need more time to open up, but when you finally get ready to talk about it, nobody will think that you are pathetic or too emotional. It's all fine. Just talk about the problem and find a solution, when you are ready, of course. :)
I don't really show my emotions as much, but I like that my boyfriend shows his emotions. One of us has to or we'd both be like two robots! I was also raised in a family that didn't show emotions, my boyfriends family is SO EMOTIONAL. I think all my best relationships have been with more emotional guys. It feels more balanced to me.