I constantly argue with my boyfriend for a number of reasons:
- He keeps comparing me to other girls.
- Keeps belittling me while complimenting other girls.
- Is always concerned about someone seeing us together.
- Keeps talking about his exes and the woman he used to love.
I hate arguing with him. It's not that I want to but I just can't help it. I want to stop!
Am I justified arguing with them?
What should I do to stop?
Most Helpful Guy
If he consistently compares you to other girls, belittles you, and is constantly concerned with someone seeing you two together, you should stop arguing with him and leave him. You teach people how to treat you by virtue of what you expect (respect, for instance) versus what you get (belittled).
You need to ask yourself why you are staying with someone when it is so easy for you to cite his negative attributes. Especially concerning to me, from a relationship coaching lens, is the comparison to other girls, his concerns with someone seeing you two together, and him talking about exes. That generally points to someone with cheating tendencies.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
You clearly don't like the situation your in the things he says and way he treats you.
You don't have to argue with him to make that point clear to him.
Talk like two adults and maybe the situation you don't like will stop
Arguing isn't making any difference or changing things so try something new!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE