I'm known as an ice queen when it comes to showing interest in guys. Part of that is rooted in a fear of coming off as needy, but I'm trying to learn how to be more expressive when I'm interested in a guy. What would you say makes a girl clingy or desperate when you've started talking?
Guys, what makes a girl clingy vs showing she's interested?
What Guys Said 2
I think that's a fuzzy line, and some might disagree with me. But I tend to distinguish them based upon levels of need and whether or not a girl will maintain a healthy level of self respect. Needy girls act in desperation and will do whatever they must to hold on, despite themselves. A healthy interest certainly is built around an attachment. But a girl with a healthy attachment will also know there's a limit to what she can and should do based upon the nature of the relationship and the effort the guy is making. She will respect that limit and respect herself0
Honestly I like a little clingy. Makes me feel secure in my significant other's opinion of me. I may be in the minority though, but I think it's hot.0
What Girls Said 1
Initiate from time to time. Just don't do so daily. Also, don't use overly affectionate words in your texts, but it's fine to compliment the guy sometimes.0
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