I'm literally broke. I started my life over and I have nothing. No car or anything. This guy wants to take me on a date but he's 1 hr away from me.
Everything seems a bit too complicated already but he's so sweet... I wish I could date but I have literally nothing to bring to him. No money... can't meet him. No money to take a bus or train.
Should I just tell him we should be friends or just tell him it won't work out at all and apologize?
Most Helpful Guy
Here are my thoughts from a relationship coaching lens. Let's take the money issue off the table and ask a couple of questions.
Why would you be interested in going out with him, besides the fact that he's sweet? What do you know about this guy--enough to be comfortable going out with him? If he had money, how would that make him more or less of a potential boyfriend?0
Most Helpful Girl
I say wait until you have the resources to get to him. Or another guy, in case he's not single by then.
I didn't used to date because of that. And I had a guy insist to take me in his car and pay. Like he kept on and on and asking and I kept saying no because I was broke and he didn't understand I don't like depending on people. Nothing ever happened between us0
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