So my ex and I stopped talking officially in August of 2015. I cut him off because of some things he said, which I actually misinterpreted and found out later on. Anyways, one day he followed me back on social media and a couple months later I sent him a message asking him how he was doing. We have been good friends ever since. Now as soon as last week, he posted a picture of us on his snapchat story just sending me a shout out. I didn't read to much into it because he had done that for other friends in the past. But I thanked him and it fired up a short conversation between us. Then, on Sunday I decided to put a post of us on instagram basically just giving him a shout out and thanking him for being a great person in my life.. He then sent me a message later that day, thanking me for the post. He continued to say that I am glad the feeling of us feeling important to one another is mutual. Then he asked me what I thought about us getting together when he gets back from college and talking about "us". Now my feelings for this guy still linger and are still very much there. But I am just wondering why after all this time, he's now asking me for this?
Most Helpful Guy
If you ended the relationship because of things he said that you misinterpreted, perhaps he never lost interest at all! Perhaps he's been biding his time, hoping you'd cool down, hoping he'd have a chance to explain, and hoping there was a possibility of rebuilding with you. Or perhaps he did write you off but has enjoyed remaining cordial. In any case, I'm saying that maybe "all of a sudden" isn't as all of a sudden as you think. It doesn't sound like the flame ever really went out for either one of you. Good luck! :-)0
Most Helpful Girl
Well, okay, let's organize this, something happened he said something you got offended, but later on you found out that you misinterpreted, OKAY so he did not do anything wrong to cause the break up - CHECK
He does post pictures with you, and loves the fact that you do the same, and he has feelings for you, and it is so obvious that he does - CHECK
He wants you two to get together, if not, HE WOULD JUST NOT SAY IT, he does LOVE YOU - CHECK
Yes, he asked you now, because HE WAS IN COLLAGE, and guess what people do in collage? They study, and yes time flies by, but he thought about you the WHOLE TIME, and i think it's not too late, if i where you, i would try and meet him in person, set up a nice date, and have a long talk...
Just do it, you have nothing to loose.. comon :P today is Valentine's day,<3