Okay this guy I met online asked to be my valentine date. I thought how cute, nothing serious and whatever.
He has work and he's actually swamped. He's been texting me everyday... saying good morning and goodnight. However the first day he text me he said I think it would be perfect to go out to eat, watch a movie, drink wine and go to a hotel. You on the bed and me on the couch. I pressed the breaks and asked are you looking for a hookup? He said no, he's looking for a girlfriend and he never really dated before. I started to stop texting a bit.. he said sorry, I didn't mean to sound like I want you as a sex object. I'm a bit weird hence why I've never had a girlfriend. Other than that fiasco he asks how my day is.. sends the good morning and night text, compliments me, says he likes me.
While all of this is cute and too good to be true... should I be weary? We are supposed to meet this weekend but he says he has a friends birthday party so we will try next week. He's a big weird.. and I like weird but should I watch out for him? Other than that situation he doesn't make me feel nervous or that he judges me. He says my personality and appearance is unique and he likes it.
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just use the same caution you would meeting/dating anyone else. Probably a good idea to meet up in the day time somewhere public the first time you guys get together though. If you're just worried and want to be safe give a friend/family member his phone number and text them a pic of his licence plate number right when you first meet.
He seems fine to me from what you've said..0
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