Thoughts on my situation and how to handle it? Am I wrong in how I think?
Most Helpful Girl
i think you are handling it good. she sounds pretty inconsiderate, selfish and spoilt. You should expect a level of cleanliness from your partner so you are not wrong there. It sounds like she is trying to manipulate you and control you. id never expect my man to pay for everything because we both should contribute to every part of the relationship. you are 35, so how old is your partner? do you really love her?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
Well, the hygiene thing would gross me out, too. You're right about that. Showering only twice a week? That's gross.
As for the paying thing, I'm sorry but I kinda have to agree with her. I'm in the same situation, my girlfriend makes considerably more than me but I'm happily paying for 100% and that includes much more than just meals. In our society that's expected of men and the fact that she makes 100k a year really doesn't change that.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE