I know it might seem greedy or something, but I just don't want anyone to use me. If I told you that on a first date, would it still sound bad?
Most Helpful Girl
Dating and relationships work because TWO people put in the effort for one and another. So why wouldn't that go for paying for certain things TOGETHER? I know how it was traditionally a cultural thing where men were suppose to do it, but we're in the 21st century people, get with the program lol
It ain't bush week..8THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
I think splitting the check is a perfectly fine thing to do. However, your rationality for it bothers me a bit. It's starting to sound like an insecurity -- this fear that the girl might only be dating you for free shit. I think it's worth losing that insecurity and find a better rationale for splitting a check that isn't fueled by suspicion.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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