I'm not into paying everything if I'm not sure she doesn't want to abuse my kindness. I would gladly offer almost anything to a girl that I love but the simple thought that a girl would date me only to get some free stuff makes my blood boil.
I know it might seem greedy or something, but I just don't want anyone to use me. If I told you that on a first date, would it still sound bad?
Most Helpful Girl
Dating and relationships work because TWO people put in the effort for one and another. So why wouldn't that go for paying for certain things TOGETHER? I know how it was traditionally a cultural thing where men were suppose to do it, but we're in the 21st century people, get with the program lol
It ain't bush week..8
Most Helpful Guy
A first date should really just be a coffee for an hour and determine whether this is someone you would actually like to see again. You can get this.
And even if it's great, just get up and leave - you have a busy life and stuff to do. Make a date for a real date, and then you both can decide how it gets paid for. It's nicer to take turns, rather than trying to split everything down the middle. Most girls worth their salt are willing to treat a guy sometimes. Don't make it complicated - only this generation is sweating this.
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