How high is your minimum physical standard for your men?

To make it more specific, how good does he have to look naked? Some superficiality is okay, at the very least.

Note that this question is just about looks. If, say, you're okay with the appearance of overweight men but you steer away from them if they don't seem to care about their health, that's a different standard.
  • Low. I mean it when I say intelligence and personality are what matters.
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  • Medium. His physique is one of multiple important factors.
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  • High. I'm a heckuva woman and, for me, it takes a heckuva man!
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  • I put high but I could have put any of these really. Looks are very important to me. I can tell if a guy has what I want after watching him for 7seconds. He will look super amazing to me but I don't know if that's cause he's super hott or just because I surprise from watching him if he most likely has the attributes I am looking for and the personality... they are all rolled into one for me honestly. If your hott it makes your personality better, if you have a great personality it makes you look better...

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    • Informative, thank you. 😎

      Anything more specific you look at? Kindness, sense of humor, or what?

    • small quick stride, how he holds his shoulders, how often he makes eye contact, things like that... I can usually surmise a lot about them with out them saying much to me at all.

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  • I'm fine with "average" bodies, I can find beauty in them even if there's a bit of pudge. Especially if I love the guy. But once it passes from a bit of pudge to being pudgy/fat, you've lost me, especially if there's no feelings there. Of course, if we were a couple it'd be something I'd help you work on, as a bit of a health loonie.

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  • His appearance is important , his appearance initially attracts me , but it's his personality that I fall for

    If he was hot , but I didn't like his personality then I wouldn't date him or continue to see him

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    • Hm. It makes sense if the hottest guys get all the one -night stands.

  • I'm of a medium build and I don't want a man that is smaller than me nor do I want a guy that's obease! First things I notice are general appearance, hair, skin and teeth.

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  • Must not look or smell like an animal living in the wild. I don't care about his height and weight, his length or lack of hair on the head or face, and I don't care about what brand of clothing he wears. But he needs to make effort to look his best and regularly practice basic hygiene.

    That's it, done. I'm sapeoseuxal.

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  • The way he looks is important BUT it is not the most important At All. Because even if he looks like Theo James but is mean , disrespectful, negative, a fuckboy, not intelligent, not funny it's not interesting, I won't enjoy my time with him. A man is not a paint I buy to look at

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  • Mine are low I guess I just want someone mature, responsible, and educated.

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  • I know I am definitely not a perfect girl, but I do have standards. The funny thing is the guys I end up liking my friends normally are not attracted to them, so I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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  • Eh. If I like you, then I like you. Sometimes I can look past someone's weight just as long as it isn't an issue and they're not obese, morbidly obese or on the verge of obesity.

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  • I'm very into lean men. Always have been. It has more to do with the fact that lean men tend to have long lean fingers. Hands are my biggest fetish.

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  • I dont care much about body. As long as he's not extremely thin or fat, Im ok.

    HOWEVER, his face is absolutely necessary. If i dont find his face atteactive, I cannot date him.

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  • I don't know lol
    As long as he's attractive to me, I don't care what other people think about his looks.
    Medium I guess.

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  • average looking body with good health. I eat healthy and try to exercise and I want my partner to be healthy too so he can be alongside me

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  • Medium, have to look like what I think is at least average to be attractive for me, and my preference is average to slightly above average

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  • He doesn't have to have the body of a Roman statue, but I have to be attracted to him.

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  • Personally, I think personality matters most but looking good is also somewhat important... I prefer skinnier guys tbh but I have dated less skinny guys online

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  • I choose low. As long as he has a good personality, smart, and treats me good then I'm all for it

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  • I don't know how I can put it. I just need to be attracted to him

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  • High enough for me to actually be physically attracted to him.

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  • His physique is one of multiple important factors.

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  • Just no belly please. No chubbies or pencils.

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