So im an 18 year old girl and this really bugging me. I dont have a boyfriend yet lol but this stuff makes me embrassed to have one. For example
if you and your guy shop for the day out and want to get something to eat who pays? I would rather split the bill as i like to be indpendant. It makes me feel embarassed if they pay for the whole thing.
same with other dates like cinema etc i would rather pay my own way. Im just really shy like that it embarassed me a lot.
do use mind if splitting the bill was an option?
or how can i not care so much about it
Most Helpful Guy
I can't believe how much this topic is debated. Most guys don't have an issue with splitting. I think it should be. Especially in the beginning. But the main thing is just to tell the guy you're dating your beliefs and what you want. There's absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about.1
Most Helpful Girl
In my case we divide the expenses. for example: when we go to the cinema, I pay tickets and he pays food.2