🤔 I knew this girl in high school, and we interact occasionally through social media. But we have never been close, and don't like... text each other and hang out and stuff.
Within the past month, maybe less, her and her fiancé broke things off.
Monday he and I matched on tinder.
Last night he sent a message
Today we've been steadily talking
for some reason I feel guilty. I feel like I should ask her where they stand since it's so fresh. I have no attachment to him whatsoever at this point so if she asked me to stop talking to him I would.
But I don't want her to think I'm trying to start drama by approaching her about it and asking her if things are cool and such.
Like if they're still talking I don't want any part of it honestly. But I can't ask him because I've never met him, whereas I know her.
Most Helpful Guy
She sounds like an acquaintance not a friend. So I wouldn't worry about that side of things. If it weren't for the huge web of social media, you'd have no contact with her.
But as for him, you might as well mention that you don't really know her but had actually seen they split up. Just get it out there so it's... kind of not like this looming thing where he knows and you know but he doesn't know if you know blah blah blha. Just have it in the past like yeah he was engaged recently and its broken off. I mean that may explain some of his behavior and if it's just out there and known things are actually more relaxing going forward.0
Most Helpful Girl
if you are not close, you don't owe her an explanation.
different story if it was your best friend's ex, in which case you just don't. but you and the girl are merely acquaintances.
also, if he just got out of a serious relationship, he's looking for a rebound and you're going to get hurt.0