If she is very attractive, would that make her unappealing and cause her personality to be written all over her face.
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depends on if the guy is good or not. a guy who just wants sex doesn't ever like the girl. - he just likes ANY female that looks good. as far as he's concerned he's having sex with a body not a person. for those guys, they really don't care about personality because they really don't care about her as a person.
a good guy who wants to actually have a relationship is different. these are the types of guys that most girls eventually want a relationship with. these are the ones who actually care about the girl as a person and therefore care about her personality. I've seen a handful of girls recently who I'm glad I didn't date. when I first saw them they were gorgeous and held good conversation, a few similar interests etc. but as I got to know them more, I found out things about their personality that has literally made those particular girls unattractive to me. one of them I did date for a bit before learning more about her personality. It's too bad she wasn't a great person bc she is simply gorgeous. but nonetheless I wouldn't date her again specifically for that reason alone.
I don't just fall in-lust with looks, I fall in-like or in-love with the PERSON as a whole. guys like this will stay with their girl even when they have plenty of options. if you get your man (who already likes your looks) to fall in love with your personality, you're set. bc no matter where he goes, beautiful women are everywhere, but there is only ONE you. 👍1