so me and my girlfriend have been dating for about a month and it's been amazing, we've had our little issues here and there just like every relationship, but i feel we truly like each other, my question is this, we both have never had a real relationship before each other and we basically just hooked up with people (no sex involved) before each other, i guess we both have recognized that some of the people we have gotten lucky with have been solid 12/10's and such, but i know i like her and am SUPER attracted to her even tho she may not be as hot as some of my hookups, although she is SO HOT herself, i know she's hooked up with some guys hotter than me also, but it makes me feel like she doesn't really like me and she isn't sexually attracted to me because of some of the past people she's hooked up with, i know i'm being stupid but is there any consolation to make me realize she likes me as much as i like her in both a mental and sexual way?
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You lost me right here.
" just hooked up with people (no sex involved) before each other, i guess we both have recognized that some of the people we have gotten lucky with have been solid 12/10's and such, "
1) Hooked up means sex
2) There is no such thing as a 12/10. Stop abusing the rating scale.
Advice: If you have to ask yourself if she is attracted to you, then she probably isn't. Girls who are attracted to men will go out of their way to make it known with no effort. You just know... She is probably sensing those vibes that you feel you aren't good enough either. So stop thinking that.