Most Helpful Guy
ANYone who hits me is allowed to do so so that what I do next is self defense, and if all I did was break your hand, you'd be lucky, and the only reason you'd get off so easy is if I think I might be charged with excessive self defense for doing more or I don't have a reliable alibi prepared for my whereabouts being elsewhere.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
If you are not sure where to start, or if you just want to talk to someone about whether your relationship is abusive, I think you should just STEP OUT and try to reach to your family, YES you might be ashamed and it's normal, but trust me, your family will be more than happy to give you a hand and they will be even more happy that you reached out for help.
It is very common for abusers to lead victims to believe that the abuse is the victim's fault, don't you ever excuse him or blame yourself, it's not your fault.
You should immediately form a plan to end the relationship immediately, before it's too late.
Regardless of your love for one another, how long you've been together, whether you have kids or pets, or whether you live together, a relationship that involves physical or psychological abuse needs to be over, because you deserve SO MUCH BETTER.
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Wish you the best luck,1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE