I feel really lonely, and crave an intimate relationship with a girl.
Cuddling, kissing, someone to talk to, someone who understands me, sex, someone who the world melts away when I am with.
I have a lot of issues, maybe someday I will resolve them, or a miracle will happen and a girl and I will fall in love...
I don't hold out for that though, I doubt I will ever have an intimate relationship.
So how can I deal/accept living life without a girlfriend?
Some of My Issues:
-Not good at anything
-Too "Emotional" (Apparently)
-Too much "Competition"( I feel like there are so many guys better than me, why would a girl choose me?)
-Hurt ( A girl kind of led me on, and I keep encountering this same type of girl... Starting to feel like they are all the same, Attention Seeking, Cheating, Manipulative)
-Fear/Anxiety ( When things are going well, I get really scared to take things further)
-Not Attractive ( Maybe Handsome, but that is different from hot)
-Not Happy with life, Career, Family ( Very Dysfunctional Family)
I have a lot of issues, that's just what I know and I probrally have more, I struggle to meet and talk to girls, it hurts and I feel so lonely that I don't have someone...
How can I accept that having a girlfriend isn't for me?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you should learn to love yourself, resolve what the problems you can resolve and accept the ones you can't, learn to be more positive and see the good instead of the bad side of your life and be grateful for what you have. Know that there is always worst then you in this life and fight for your personal happiness. Then you'll find a girl for you and you'll be able to fulfill her with happiness too. I don't think that right now is the right time for you to have someone anyway, don't wait for someone to help you or bring you what you need cause it doesn't work like that. 🌸1