Here is a general question. In the gym, this trainer girl stares at me from across the room like 50 feet away. Non-stop... like she never breaks staring. We do this eye contact thing here and there. Even when she has a client taking to her client she looking direct at me. This is a large distance, but not too far to see someone eye's. She literally hold it to for like 10s or longer. When she does look away she goes back to staring.
She moves to another area and does it again, she never looks away? sometimes another 10 feet i the distance this goes on for an hour... or another hour... across 2 clients for her. Not everyday but it happens.
Is this weird? is this distance and holding it odd? I mean shouldn't they look away or glance around? I think her client know she doing this, because she looks over at me. She is an older lady. When I look away she still staring directly into my eyes. I can see it easy.
We have talked here and there, she's nice, she's cute but this constant eye contact thing. Im not kidding, she looks for 10s easy, direct eye contact. She sometimes does it in close contact. But the distance and not looking away is the main point.
Is this odd this constant staring? any theories? why so far away?
Most Helpful Girl
That doesn't necessarily mean she is into you.0
Most Helpful Guy
Hummmm its hard to say she could be eyeing you up but doesn't know how to make a move (maybe to nervous) maybe she's just fantasizing on the other hand you are clearly catching her stares at you. Come on dude, just walk up to her and ask to talk to her in private. Dont be rude or a jerk hell she may even keep quiet or avoid it at first cause you know nervous and all. Politely ask her why she has her eyes on you. I don't know if you are a good looking guy or look funny. But maybe she would like to talk but doesn't know how so offer her your number maybe that'll give her some courage to text you.0
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