-the girl is a virgin and pretty inexperienced when it comes to relationships/sexual stuff
-the guy is close to 10 years older than her and super experienced obv
-they connect super well on an emotional level/physical level as of now
-his idea of taking it to the next level is sex (in order for him to feel secure with someone)
-her idea of taking it to the next level is being in an exclusive relationship (in order for her to feel secure with someone)
Do you think it could work?
- The girl should just have sex alreadyVote A
- The guy should wait for her to be ready as long as it's not super longVote B
- It's just not guna workVote C
- You should meet half wayVote D
- OtherVote E
He said its not what he's used to. he's used to having sex with someone within the first few dates so this is just super different for him.
Most Helpful Guy
Sex shouldn't "seal the deal" or be the goal. It should be when both people are ready not just one sided. I like how he isn't pressuring you and you are waiting till you are ready. Tell him you appreciate how he is handling this and that while you aren't ready to have sex yet, you appreciate each other and that is at the same level you are looking for. Also I'll be honest studying up on porn helped me a lot more than when I learned it in sex ed or the talk. Ask him what he likes to do and find some... Research material.
Connecting at physically and emotionally is hella important it shows they are in sync. Keep getting romantic and lovey-dovey and all that shit, snuggling up against him letting him hold you will give him a great sense of accomplishment (may leave him wanting more but make it clear you aren't ready) maybe consider a hand job if you are courageous enough, itd give him some way to relax. Also you could tell him you are his that helps to.
Women can tend to be nervous about their first time due to the slight prick they feel, it doesn't last long very short in fact so the first time won't be aggressive (as some guys like) it will be awkward and welcome foreplay to help relax. The biggest obstacle on the first time is fear.1
Most Helpful Girl
No, I don't think it could work since the guy is being too demanding. Men should be patient with women who are virgins.1