Maybe it's the type of guy I attract but every guy I talk to whenever I mention I want a relationship or take things slow they turn around and say they want friends with benefits
Why do guys seem to be scared of making a commitment?
What Guys Said 17
Because they never deemed you worthy enough of commitment.
There's a reason why these guys are usually the guys girls want. Their abundance mentality is what is attractive.
I'm pretty sure, if they "gave in" too quickly to you, your attraction will fall like a rock.
Unfortunately, the best you can do is let these guys know you are interested but look at other options.1
Being in a relationship is somewhat scary for a lot of guys. It's a big commitment. Not all guys shy away from it, but in general, guys in your age range aren't ready to settle down just yet.1
We're not scared of commitment. We commit to careers, hobbies and physically demanding ways of life all the time. We just don't like committing to women. It's a good way to get fucked over.2
It's the guys you find attractive. You know from the start that they don't want a real relationship in the back of your mind. But you want to do what other women couldn't do just to show that you're better than all those girls. Make him a loyal and loving boyfriend so you can get bragging rights. It's every 15 to 27 year old girls fantasy.2
Umm not wanting commitment doesn't mean we're scared. We're down for commitment with the right girl...0
Its sad that their are guys that want to use women. Personally I do want to settle down and start a family. You'll find a guy, may take a while longer. But if a guy generally just wants you for sex he ain't worth it (unless all you want from him is sex as well).0
I wouldn't say I'm scared of commitment so much as I just don't think it's worth it. Friends with benefits is much less effort but most of the same payoff.0
Not scared, just not interested0
Anyone who walks into commitment without fear shouldn't be making commitments0
If the man can smash without having to commit, then that's exactly what he's going to do. No one is scared.0
Relationship to me doesn't sound appealing to me , I don't know why it just doesn't0
Because when I get to the age where all girls want is hookups I'm not going to commit.0
commitments are difficult because it's a 50/50 shot of exploding in the face0
Not "scared" just doesn't make sense to commit to a woman.
What does a woman have that i want. Its rhetorical.0
I bet you can't even list one genuine and unique benefit of a guy committing to a girl, that he can't get from a friends with benefits situation or a friend...0
What Girls Said 2
it could be the sort of guys your attracting, there are some out there that commit so much! :)1
some might feel trapped1
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