I like him. He's cute and he treats me awesome. But I'm not crazy over him like I usually get when I start liking a guy. I get way too crazy and I see unicorns and butterflies, lol. That's how I felt few months ago when I was crushing on this one guy from work, before I found out he has a girlfriend. Then this new guy came and I just feel confused. I know for the fact that I'm attracted to him, but I'm also fine not being with him. Being with him makes me calm and safe, it's simple, easy and fun. Really fun, I laugh all the time! I'm usually the type that falls in love pretty fast, but it seems I still didn't fall in love with him? Is that okay giving that it's only been few weeks since we started hanging out?
Most Helpful Guy
Life is too short to eat generic food! Being with him doesn't make you calm and safe.. you naturally feel that way... you need a guy who makes you feel out of control and excited... don't do it.2
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going through this too. The last guy I dated I went gaga for. When we were together it was like fireworks and so passionate. BUT-it also burnt out just as quickly. The guy I'm dating now is taking it slow it seems. The first guy and I had instant chemistry and we were all over each other from the get-go. With this guy, we have to ease into it and get the timing right. It's not a fire. Somehow I think though, that our feelings will grow stronger over time. It seems we could have something real and sustainable one day, which is why I'm being patient about developing the passion with guy #2. But, I'm looking for a committed relationship not just a hot fling. This guy's def worth it. I say only give it a chance if you both want the same kind of relationship. If not, it's pretty much wasting his time, and yours.4