We broke up and months had passed. She already have someone new and I'm okay with that. We still meet each other frequently on a weekly basis due to work. I'm still single, but every time I tried to chat with someone new, it feels like she tries to ruin it somehow. At face value, we can still be friends and she would encourage me to go for it and ask someone else out. When I do talk to someone else, she'll get all quiet and be by herself at one point of the day.
Most Helpful Girl
How is her going quiet trying to ruin it?
If it's bothering you, maybe you should stop meeting with her for a while.
I used to go out with a guy who messed me around so much, and everytime I walked away and tried to move on, there he'd be. He'd turn up to places he knew I'd be, he'd keep calling me and he'd be as sweet as anything until things were back to "normal" ... and then it would all start again.
In the end, I stopped going to those places he used to up at for a while and stopped giving in to answering the phone.
Once I stopped all communication with him I was able to move on. I stopped thinking about him. If I saw him in the street I'd cross over.
I was so much happier when I started doing that.
I've been with my current parter for three years now, and it's so different. He gave me confidence back.
My ex and I do talk now, but there's nothing there anymore.
It doesn't matter what this girl does or doesn't do. You can only move on when she's out of your system. Until then she'll "ruin" anything you let her.0
Most Helpful Guy
Who cares what she thinks? Move on and leave her in the dust if she doesn't like it.0