Most Helpful Girl
How is her going quiet trying to ruin it?
If it's bothering you, maybe you should stop meeting with her for a while.
I used to go out with a guy who messed me around so much, and everytime I walked away and tried to move on, there he'd be. He'd turn up to places he knew I'd be, he'd keep calling me and he'd be as sweet as anything until things were back to "normal" ... and then it would all start again.
In the end, I stopped going to those places he used to up at for a while and stopped giving in to answering the phone.
Once I stopped all communication with him I was able to move on. I stopped thinking about him. If I saw him in the street I'd cross over.
I was so much happier when I started doing that.
I've been with my current parter for three years now, and it's so different. He gave me confidence back.
My ex and I do talk now, but there's nothing there anymore.
It doesn't matter what this girl does or doesn't do. You can only move on when she's out of your system. Until then she'll "ruin" anything you let her.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Just forget her. She doesn't seem like a good person.
You're her backup plan she'll never use0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE