There have been a few times where I've been able to get to date 2, 3, 4, or 5 at most but then they'd still disappear. Only ones that were who still wanted to see me where ones who used misleading pictures or were super clingy or flat out crazy.
What gets me is I'm told I'm cute, funny, and have a lot of good things going for me. And by no means am I suggesting appearance is everything or a girl should stay just because she thinks I'm cute, but it's frustrating as I tend to keep my options open and attract a lot of women initially, but nothing long term.
I don't know if it's because I'm meeting a lot of these women online and they got so many options. Or if there might be something I'm doing on my end that's scaring them off whether it's something about my personality or something I said or did to make them end things.
What's even worse is when I get women who initiate hanging out again on the first date or after it, hit me up, tell me they had a good time then they disappear all of a sudden. It really fucks with my head.
I don't wanna sound like one of those whiny "nice guys" or say all women are bitches or anything like that. But I just feel like I'm walking on eggshells a lot like there's one thing I might do that ends it.
I just wonder if i should change my approach or do something that changes so I have better results. While I don't wish away these experiences, All I can say is quality is more important than quantity.
Anyone else able to relate or offer advice?