I'm 18 soon to be 19, and I been talking to a guy who I like and he likes me too. We are not official yet but we hang out and go out to eat together. I'm shy, but I don't mind holding his hand or playfully arguing with him. (Which is a big deal since I mostly keep things to myself). Anyways we are talking a lot and I think it will be sooner or later that we might start dating. And I'm honestly freaking out on how to go about it. I mean I will tell him if the chance presents itself that he is my first boyfriend so that would take some pressure of me of living up to what his ex were (experience level). I feel like my inexperienxe level might be a turn off for him even tho he doesn't mind my "shy" "innocent" times when we talk and hang out. But I don't know what to expect. Tips?
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If you're trying to "live up" to an ex, you're already entering the relationship with the wrong attitude. You are you, not someone else and you shouldn't try to be. And at the end of the day attraction is natural and chemistry is natural and you can't force things to be "great" or force romance or whatever, so just enjoy the experience and understand that the first experience is a learning one, more than a relationship that is everlasting or "serious".1