I don't have time for b. s. Idc how nice a guy seems they will still probably fuck you over. So I've started giving a simple list when a guy wants my time.
1. No children. No girlfriend or wife. No other girls you're casually seeing.
2. I don't have sex on the first, second, even third date. Probably not until I feel like I know you.
3. If you're not trying to take time to get to know me and just want sex, don't even try.
I've been single for a long time but my life has been drama free. I just wanna know how much this turns you off.
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I see where you're coming from and agree with you. The problem is, when you're just getting to know someone, the reality is they're most likely talking to other people too as thats sadly how dating is nowadays with online dating and how many people don't want to settle down. Of course not all guys are like that, but I think its ok to tell the guy this after the first couple of dates, as long as you come across calm and collected about it and not hostile, I think you'll find someone who feels the same way.2