I went out with this guy I met from tinder. He is really sweet and we had great conversation. I just can't tell if I'm attracted to him physically. I feel like that shouldn't be an important factor, that I should look past his appearance. Then I feel like physical attraction is important. Should I go out with him again? Please don't be rude!! I just need opinions.
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, let me answer emphatically that physical attraction matters. It's one of three parts of intimacy and chemistry. The other two are intellectual and emotional. You can't have a truly satisfying relationship without all three.1
Most Helpful Girl
A guys physical appearance initially attracts me but it's his personality that i fall for. I couldn't date a guy if I wasn't physically attracted to him , and I wouldn't continue to date him if he had a shit personality either
Everyone sees people differently though , because I've dated a guy before and other people thought he wasn't attractive at all, but i did... and that's all that matters..
I'd hate to be with a guy who wasn't physically attracted to me. If he told me he liked my personality but he didn't find me attractive I'd feel offended lol who wants to be with someone who doesn't feel physically attracted to them. I can't imagine many people feeling comfortable in knowing that
To be honest, I'm sure he wouldn't want you to date him if he thought you didn't feel attracted to his physical appearance. I'd be surprised if he would be though.
I think physical attraction , an emotional and mental connection come as a" package" . If one is missing then the relationship won't last0