I met this guy a while ago and there was always a flirty energy between the both of us. We didn't talk all that much but it was obvious that we got along really well. It stayed that way until a mutual friend threw a party and we were both there. We talked to each other the whole night, he got drunk and told someone I was his 'dream girl' when he thought I wasn't paying attention. Nothing happened that night though (I didn't reject him, just left early).
But after that, things got weird. He really started avoiding me, and when we went out in a group of friends he would talk to anyone but me (that happened more than once, lol). I thought to myself, maybe he's just not interested anymore, shit happens, and I moved on.
But then... it got weird again. He's still kinda not directly talking to me, but things are... sketchy. He does some little things like, for example he likes my photos religiously (he doesn't like my girl friends', who talk to him just as much as I do). Where I come from this IS actively flirting, and given our background info and the things he said about me before... it's just weird.
What I was trying to ask from the beginning: What did I do wrong? I don't think I was pushy or clingy, I didn't get enough time to become that lol. Why would he suddenly just start avoiding me like that if he was still interested? And if he wasn't interested anymore, then why stay avoiding me, while doing flirty shit on the internet? I don't get it tbh
Most Helpful Guy
He dips in and out with flirty energy to see if you will chase him and make him some sick priority in your life. in my opinion1
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe he is actually interested in you, but he doesn't think that you are.0