I've been dating this guy for 6 months, he's new to the area and for the most part, I am his means of social entertainment. Lately, I've started bringing him to hangout with my friends, which includes drinking, clubbing and hanging out. He was the one to first mention hanging out with my friends and getting to know them.
He seems to enjoy himself to some degree, but he is rather shy at times. And sometimes his mood just shifts completely, he can be laughing and drinking and smoking and then I just get strange vibes from him. I feel he isn't enjoying himself and he's not comfortable and annoyed.
I mean, he is from South America, and all his friends live there. So, I also understand it might be hard for him to connect and relate, especially because he is a kind of shy person.
Last night we went out to a club with an acquaintance of mine, and he seemed to be enjoying himself, but not completely. We slept over the person's house, and then when we woke up in the morning he had such a bad attitude it put me in a bad mood and makes me feel like I'm not doing enough for him. I feel like I bore him and don't make him happy. I dropped him off in the morning and usually his kisses are passionate, but this one wasn't.
I mean, it's not that my friends don't talk to him. They do. My friends are very kind and sweet people, but he's just shy and sometimes awkward. But, they still enjoy his company. I try and make sure he's having a good time, that he's heard and accounted for.
But it just hurts me.
Most Helpful Guy
Ok, I think he was genuinely interested in meeting your friends, but it sounds like you are overdoing it now and every time you go out, your friends have to be included too. I think he likes your friends and enjoys spending time with them, but not every time. I bet he didn't want to sleep over at your friends house because that left you two with no privacy! That is why he was upset in the morning. He wants to be with you, not you and all your friends. I think you need to cut back on how often you go out with your friends and him.1
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe he doesn't always feel like hanging out with other people, but he does it for the sake of you.1