Are you afraid of being shutdown?

It can be hard for men to get up the courage to confess to women (some not all) they are so afraid of being shotdown it can really mess with a guys mind and heart and may even prevent them from trying again some other time. The same can be said for women as well. So with that being said, be you guy or lady, are you afraid of being turned down? Intellectual conversation please.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No, but that's probably because I never try.


Most Helpful Guy

  • Nope. Not in this life. I no longer feel the need to prove anything to anyone, ever. Hence I don't feel the pressure build (I used to, though). you could say I had a change of philosophy in my early 20s.

    I think the fear is brought about, in some way or form, by a sense of inferiority (not necessarely a complex).


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  • i totaly agree and yes i am very frightend to b turned down it happends a lot to me