So I have developed this fear overtime as relationships in my past were short term and other guys I was dating just up and lost interest and no longer texted me... The ending of my past relationships weren't really my fault.. But I feel like I can't hold a guy down because nothing has been long term in the past for me. I always feel like nothing will last at least with the guys that I actually do like. I don't let this bad perception get to me when we are out, but I find this question haunting me in daily life. I just wonder why? I'm nice, caring, smart, intellectual, funny sometimes, etc...
Most Helpful Guy
From a relationship coaching lens, a couple things to think about.
1) What type of guys are you attracted to? Are there similar personality traits that they all exude?
2) How quickly do you go into sex and how quickly after sex do things end?
I'm not asking you to answer these here but there could very well be a correlation between these answers and your bad luck.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know, I have a fear of losing someone too. But I just have to remind myself that no one is supposed to always be in your life, whether it is them walking away or death, it doesn't matter0