My boyfriend said he likes seeing women cry?

I sent a video to my boyfriend about a group of people pouring giant snakes on a sleeping woman. She wakes up terrified and screaming and crying. He sent a response back saying he loves seeing women cry and that the video was funny. I sent it to show how terrible it was. Is this a normal response?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • From a relationship coaching lens, I can tell you EMPHATICALLY that this is not a normal response and it should worry you.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • No. Red flag. He's fucked up.

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What Guys Said 18

  • only for guys who are not sensitive , some guys who are not sensitive suck at showing it not meaning to hurt others around them but they do not realizing it. but if he knows then i would think the guy isn't into emotional moments where he is supposed to care for his girl.

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  • Does he mean it a sexual manner? There is a fetish known as dacryphilia where a person gets turned on by seeing people cry.

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  • Not really , i would understand if it was a sad women to make her feel better but terrified women crying? Not really normal

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  • That's strange and wrong.

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  • Was the the video of a TV show?
    If yes, then I laughed watching it too. It was staged to make people laugh.

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  • I hope you are joking, if not thats not normal.

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    • I asked him if he was joking, and he said no.

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    • There's been times I've cried and he didn't care about my feelings. He has stated before that he feels indifferent when I'm sad.

    • Well if you were my girl and you were crying id switch to cuddles mode! Seriously though its not cool that he's doing this.

  • wtf he fucked up

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  • He has some very weird twisted fantasies. I would be careful about him, especially the fact that he may want to see you cry.

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  • If he wasn't joking. he is a bloody sadist. Kick him out of your life.

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  • he was probably kidding, if he wasn't he's fuckex up

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  • I know quite a few men like that. I dont know, kinda messed up

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  • This is my personal opinion and I may be wrong..
    But most of the guys feels deeply for a crying girl. It doesn't mean we like to make them cry. So, I guess.. you may have misunderstood.

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  • Well he might not like it

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  • Dump him, otherwise he will get leisure out of your cry

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  • That's not normal at all...

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  • does he say same when u cry?
    if yes.. then get out

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  • Did he have a sister or mother that torchered him all his life

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  • He's a sick, twisted motherf*****!

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What Girls Said 4

  • sounds messed up >:(

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  • Well... that's mean :/

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  • it isnot normal

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  • He may be a sadist... what in the world

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