Last year I met this guy online that I really hit it off with. We met on a gaming website so of course we didn't originally know what each other looked like. We voice chatted quite a few times but I've always been told that I "sound" like a white chick. I never really thought to get the point across to him that I was black because, why should I? I've been in interracial relationships before and I don't think it matters the color of someone skin to consider them a person that you would date.
Anyway, skip ahead to almost a month to when we finally exchange pictures. I was really nervous because I wasn't sure what he was going to look like or if he was going to like what I looked like. It never crossed my mind to be afraid that he would hold issue with my race. After he sent me his picture, I thought okay. He isn't bad looking but then I sent my picture and... silence. He stayed that way for a little while and then he said he had to go and ended the voice call. For a few days we didn't talk until I messaged him and asked if he wanted to Skype. He said he would love to but not right now because he was playing a game. After he finished his game, we never voice chatted. The following days he made excuse after excuse as to not to talk to me.
For the sake of not making this too long, a few months past, we ended up talking again and I traveled to his state to meet him. We had a good time, he even told me multiple times that he was glad that I came out (I swear he even tried to kiss me) but he never asked me to be his girlfriend and when I went back home, he still didn't ask me but he's constantly talking about how he wants to get into a relationship and every time I bring us up, he dismisses it. He's told me I was a great girl and that I was girlfriend material, but still he won't date me. He's never said it was due to my race, but has hinted at it several times but the dude isn't racist so I don't know.
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If you have your suspicions, they must be valid to some extent. Stop talking to him if he doesn't want to date you. There are too many fish in the sea for you to worry about him.2