-He follows through on plans and even sends me "reminders" of the plans we made days before.
-He compliments me
-He asks me questions in general, but will also ask questions like "how many kids do you want?"
-He voluntarily cuddles and holds me in his arms and will squeeze me closer
-He pays when we go to eat with friends
-He introduces me to his friends
-He wanted me to meet his immediate family
-He makes plans with me once a week, each time we hang out it gets longer. Last time it was 10 hours.
-He's around me when we're in a group setting, and when I talk to his guy male friends he pulls me in a little closer.
-He openly shared that he wants to take things slowly because we have the same friendship circle and doesn't want things to get weird.
-He is a gentleman; opens doors for me, asks me if I need a drink, offers me a blanket, generally looks out for my well-being.
-He's openly admitted that he's physically attracted to me (good and bad).
-He doesn't easily open up to me about what he does or does not want from a girl in a relationship. (like, what else does he want to know about me before making a decision to move forward).
-He doesn't text me unless it's to make plans or remind me of plans (good thing or bad thing, can't decide)
-He doesn't always shows me affection, specifically in public, (not a con: but he will in front of his friends if we're all hanging out.)
-He hasn't asked me or taken me out on a formal date, most of what we do is "hang out." This is my biggest con.
So say he is interested in being more... how long do I give him before I decide to move on? I like to give grace and be understanding, but I don't accept less than I deserve either.