Every once in a while, my boyfriend and I get into an argument. We both talk it out and try to come to a solution/compromise, and I assume things are okay between us.
However, if we see each other a few hours after the argument, he had this really strange attitude with me. He seems distant and sometimes takes emotional stabs at me and makes me feel badly.
When i see him, I try and act positively towards him and let the argument go. But, sometimes he can really make me feel badly, especially because he act so passive-aggressively.
I'm not sure if it's because his ego is damaged a little bit, or he's really not over the argument or feels weird towards me after.
But, I just know I'm left feeling small and hurt, and there's a lot of tension and I just feel stupid and unloved in these instances.
Most Helpful Guy
You intimidated him and threatened his ego. He takes arguments in a very personal way. You're dealing with someone who is emotionally immature.2
Most Helpful Girl
Because he's a little shit who has no respect for you.2