However, if we see each other a few hours after the argument, he had this really strange attitude with me. He seems distant and sometimes takes emotional stabs at me and makes me feel badly.
When i see him, I try and act positively towards him and let the argument go. But, sometimes he can really make me feel badly, especially because he act so passive-aggressively.
I'm not sure if it's because his ego is damaged a little bit, or he's really not over the argument or feels weird towards me after.
But, I just know I'm left feeling small and hurt, and there's a lot of tension and I just feel stupid and unloved in these instances.
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I don't lash out at my husband like that - but it takes me some time to get over an argument. I don't just go back to happy and chirpy, my feelings were hurt or I acted like an asshole and I need awhile before that changes.
When he tries to act like it's all good or gets mad I'm not perked back up it frustrates me so we just give each other space0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE