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Yes, there is a surprising number of guys that are easily offended by others' negligence etc. too, so they don't even try anymore, despite that it's kinda expected from a dude to make the first move in most cultures.
There is a number of guys with mindset that allows them to not grieve much or at all over being rejected, too.
I usually follow the guidelines and make contact first. Probably after a couple of days if not in the right mood.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE